This post is a follow up to my Passion and Chemistry post about the man I started dating after my 8 month relationship with my Lover ended.
MrPassionless came into my life in March. He has a funny and friendly personality at first glance. He is a lot of fun to be around. Unfortunately the lack of kissing made for a serious lack of passion in the bedroom and this caused my interest in him to wane significantly.
I find that because I am in an open marriage where we live together but do not have any intimacy, I crave this in my dating relationships. I NEED the desire, passion and chemistry. If it’s not there, what’s the point?
So as my desire for Mr.Passionless started to fall flat, my annoyance at him in other areas started to become apparent. He would often message me making comments about my being online but too busy for him…and frequently commented that I would not spend enough time with him though I have spent more time woth him than anyone I have dated. Eventually I told him that he knew what time I could provide when we started seeing one another. He decided that it was best for him to start seeing other people (fine) but still wanted to sleep with me. Given that there qas so much missing in the passion department, the answer from me was a resounding “hell no” and I bid him farewell.